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Does Love At First Sight Actually Exist?

Are you one of those still wondering and asking yourself “Does love at first sight actually exist”? Love remains one of the world’s biggest mysteries as some people believe there is love at first sight, and others say there is no such thing as love at first sight. However, in my humble opinion, love at first sight exist and could be made real and could last forever if the lovers stays with that first charming attraction. However, the attraction and lust at first sight is so powerful and hard to resist. Here’s a romantic story of two perfect strangers who didn’t know anything about each other until they met at a night club. As they said “A stranger is just a great friend waiting to be discovered”. Love at first sight is very cool, exciting and attractive but, what happens when it fades away? This is a blog about two perfect strangers brought together by excitement and extreme emotions of love at first sight, but things changed quickly and the love turns to hatred.



Matt is a handsome guy who had all the good qualities that sent women fidgeting on a simple contact. Though from a wealthy background, but most girls would describe him as prince charming who preys only on wealthy women. He uses the online dating sites to his advantage as he can collect as many beautiful and rich chicks as he could, and schedule dates at intervals. But there is one big issue with Matt that scares away every girl that he sleeps with – he is impotent. Matt turns heads wherever he went and was perceived to have broken several young girl’s hearts until he met Sara. She is a pretty and romantic easy going hot chick, who loves to dance and have good time. She is a hard nut to crack and the type that condones no nonsense from any man. Sara is a tall and beautiful girl that every man dreams of having as girlfriend, but she is also the type that won’t hesitate to engage any man in a physical fracas. She is a bossy type who commands men to dance to her tunes. Matt had planned to take Sara to his apartment after their first date, but she opted out, and instead agreed to meet him at the club that night by 9 pm.

Matt got home disappointed and frustrated not only for coming home empty handed, but for wasting his time communicating, calling and texting her for almost a month before the first date. They had planned to meet at the club that night, but again, she did not show up. Looking for an alternative, he went to a nearby club where he met Jane on the dancing floor as she was dancing alone. Matt quickly introduce himself, and she went to work almost immediately. Rocked Matt the way he has never experienced and the gigolo went loose and almost forgot his mission. Matt, totally disappointed by the absence of his date, now changed course, and focused attention to his newly catch hot chick. As Jane rock him on the dancing floor, he immediately plan for a quick one night stand, but Jane has other plans. She is not interested in one night stand instead, looking for a lasting love relationship. He could not believe as she opted to go home alone after the club, and instead promised to see him again if he likes to proceed on relationship. Gigolo has no choice but to accept – he cannot say no to whatever comes from that angel’s mouth. They agreed to meet again next weekend at the MC Donald. Getting home, Matt could not still believe he met and danced with that gorgeous lady, and instantly concluded that his disappointment was a blessing in disguise, and could not wait for the weekend to meet his new queen again.

He arrived at the restaurant much earlier and went to sit at a strategic location where he will see his date clearly as she walks into the restaurant. Not white long before a giant majestic figure in a designer eye glass walked in, looked around and, walked towards him. Matt was very pleased as the beautiful girl approached him with a smile. Jane is a classic chick who turns heads anywhere she went. She is really a dream girl any man could not afford to miss, and Matt loved her almost instantly, and couldn’t wait to start their relationship.

Jane was not interested in any food, as she minds her weight and was on a diet. She instead, likes to walk around the mall, and go dancing later in the night, and Matt was exactly looking for the same. He appreciated the gesture as they went around holding hands in some instances. Two short hours later, they headed to the next street to dance at a Hip Hop club. Jane loves to dance as that was her only means of exercise, and soon as they came in, she went straight to the dancing floor and, started displaying some romantic moves that no man could resist, and Matt did not waste any time joining her, as other men stood by watching her moving and displaying those lovely figures.

This is what Matt is exactly looking for in his first date who disappointed. The two rocked and rolled on the dancing floor to the admiration of everyone in the club, including the club owner who, instantly offered them free drinks and urged them to visit his club regularly. Late night after dancing, they were both tired, Jane actually wanted to sleep with him but also wanted to proof that she is a hard nut to crack. Therefore, she wanted to be dropped in her house which is near-by. Without hesitation, Matt accepted and they drove off still on that romantic overtures, which Matt could not resist. He suggested going to his home, before she softly asked him! “What made you think I love you?” Matt could not give instant reply, paused for some seconds before replying, “We are meeting for the second time. That means, we like each other on our first meeting. I like you and wanted to meet you again probably to get to know you, and who knows, everything is possible for those who try”. At that point, she accepted his offer and they went to his home. Despite those romantic dancing moves, she still likes to respect her values, and didn’t want to look cheap as Matt might have concluded.

Jane threw herself on the sofa, sending an open invitation as he continued the romantic advances, and sexual overtures till late in the night. Then, Jane suddenly got up in anger and rage, castigating him for not been able to perform. She buttons up her rumpled dress, grab her bag, and wanted to leave before Matt started shading tears to the astonishment of a lady who has just been disappointed by her boyfriend. She wanted a romance and to have him all night, but he could not perform. Matt is suffering from sever “Erectile Dysfunction.” He was trying to arouse himself for the long period she has been waiting, but nothing happened. Matt is an impotent man who has been looking for a cure. His previous dates did not want to meet him again due to the same reason. He had met several ladies for months but could not perform when it comes to the real thing – a gesture no woman appreciates.

As she stood by watching an able bodied man shading tears, she wanted to know why. Matt said! “I would like to share one issue with you, I am impotent and have been looking in vain for a cure. Ever since we came in, I have been trying to get aroused but could not. I am sorry if I have disappointed you but there is nothing I could do. I do not have feelings to propel a romantic action”. It’s very obvious that Matt need help from medical experts, but unfortunately, Jane is not among those people, and was not in any mood for a compromise.

Jane loved him and wanted to proceed and get to know him, but Matt has an issue that no woman would want to endure. Matt new his problem, and probably thought he could use his good looking features and great personality to lure woman into marriage. Jane is a beautiful hot chick who likes to be pampered, romanced, and treated like a woman, and there is no way she would get that from an impotent man. Therefore, it all boils down to her first question. “What made you think I love you”. Matt is not a happy man. What happens when love at first fades away due to circumstances beyond your control? In life, sometimes things will go your way, but in most times, they go the opposite whether you like it or not.



As you can see from the above romantic story, love at first sight is real and functioning but things could quickly turn sour if the lovers fail to stick with that first charming affection that brought them together. Have you ever been confronted with similar issues in life? Yes, most of us have actually been in a much more harder situation than this. What do you think? What would you advice a young beautiful lady facing issues and harder decisions like this? Tell us what you think. Share your thoughts. Let’s hear your opinion.